Thursday, November 18, 2010

Yitzi’s Parsha Preview-Vayishlach‎



This week’s Parsha Preview is co-dedicated to the refuah of the ‎following people:‎

Men
Dov Ber Ben Yehudit, Reuven Mordechai Ben Chana Batya, ‎Menachem Mendel Ben Faigie Ruchel, Gilon Chaim Ben Yonit, Ofek ‎Ben Tali, Shimon Ben Miriam, Avraham Moshe Ben Miriam Tova, ‎Baruch Kalman Ben Leiben Jacobs, Mendel Ber Ben Sarah, Aharon ‎Ben Tamar, Shmuel Baruch Ben Golda.‎

Women
Meira Bat Sarah, Natalie Bat Sarah. Sarah Bat Channah, Chana ‎Leah Bat Esther, Kreindel Bat Esther, Kreynah Leah Bat Rachel, ‎Simcha Bat Mazel, Sara Bat Hodda, Kyla Chaya Bat Sarah Polson, ‎Leiba Bat Devorah Esther, Tova Rochel Bat Chaya and Yocheved ‎Yaakovite bat Leah.‎

May Hashem grant them all a speedy recovery and a complete ‎healing. ‎

Daven for the release of Gilad Shalit-Gilad Ben Aviva-may Hashem ‎bring him home safe and sound. If you asked to have someone put on ‎the refuah list please update me on how these people are doing. If you ‎would like to add someone to the list please send me an e-mail ‎parshapreview@gmail.com ‎

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Parshah Vayishlach - Genesis 32:4-36:43‎
Torah Reading for Week of November 14-20, 2010 - Kislev 7-13 5771 ‎Candle Lighting for Toronto is 4:30 P.M.‎
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Number Of Mitzvot in Parshat Vayishlach ‎ ‎: 0‎
‎0 Mitzvot Aseh (Positive Commandments) ‎
‎0 Mitzvot Lo Taaseh (Negative Commandments-Prohibitions)‎

Haftora: (Additional portion, from Prophets, which is read after the ‎Parsha) Amos 2:6-3:8 ‎

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Talking Dog
A guy gets a new dog, a nice Jewish dog. So he calls him Irving. He ‎can't wait to show him off to his neighbor, so when the neighbor ‎finally comes over, the guy calls Irving into the house, bragging about ‎how smart he is. ‎

The dog quickly comes running and stands looking up at his master, ‎tail wagging excitedly, mouth open, tongue hanging out, eyes bright ‎with anticipation. ‎

The guy points to the newspaper by the door and commands "Okay, ‎Irving, Fetch!" ‎

Immediately, the dog climbs on to the couch and sits, his tail wagging ‎furiously. Then all of a sudden, he stops. His doggie smile disappears. ‎He starts to frown and puts on a sour face. ‎

Looking up at his master, he whines, "You think this is easy, wagging ‎my tail all the time? Oy ... This constant wagging of the tail puts me in ‎such pain, you should only know! And you think it's easy eating that ‎junk you call designer dog food. Forget it...it's too salty and it gives ‎me gas. And also the runs, but what do you care? Why don't you try ‎it if you think it's so good? You try it. Junk I say! Then you push me ‎out the door to take care of my business, twice a day. It's disgusting I ‎tell you! And when was the last time you took me for a nice long ‎walk? I can't remember when!" ‎

The neighbor is absolutely amazed ... stunned. In astonishment, he ‎says, "I can't believe it. Irving can speak. Your dog actually talks. ‎
Here he is sitting on the sofa talking to us." ‎

‎"I know, I know." says the owner. "He's not yet fully trained yet. He ‎thought I said, 'Kvetch'."‎

Parsha Summary – Parshah Vayishlach
It is the year 2205 and Yakov is 97 years old. He sends messengers to ‎greet Eisav and is informed that Eisav is approaching, prepared to do ‎battle. He applies a three pronged strategy in preparation for the ‎confrontation: a) Tefilah - prayer b) diplomacy c) war. Prior to the ‎actual confrontation, Yakov bests Eisav in a spiritual battle with ‎Eisav's Angel, and earns the name "Yisrael." Due to the wound he ‎sustained in the battle, G-d prohibits Yakov and his family from ‎eating the Gid Hanashe - the sciatic nerve. Yakov and Eisav meet ‎after 34 years. ‎

Yakov and Eisav agree to separate peacefully. Eisav returns to his ‎kingdom of Seir, and Yakov settles outside of the city of Shechem. ‎

Dina is abducted and raped by Shechem the son of Chamor, and ‎Shimon and Levi devise a strategy for successfully killing the entire ‎male population of Shechem. According to Chazal, Shimon and Levi ‎were 13 years old. Hashem (G-d) instructs Yakov to move to Beth El. ‎Rivka's nurse Devora dies, and Hashem confirms the name Yisrael ‎upon Yakov. ‎

Rachel dies while giving birth to Binyamin and Yakov buries her in ‎Beis Lechem. Following Rachel's death, Reuven switches the bed of ‎Yakov from Bilha's tent to Leah's tent. Although Yitzchak will live ‎another 21 years, the Torah relates his death at the age of 180 (2228). ‎The remainder of Vayishlach lists Eisav's descendants as well as the ‎specific Kings of Seir who ruled prior to King Saul - the first king of ‎Israel. (2882) ‎

Parshah Vayishlach
‎'Yosef' is the Antidote for 'Eisav' ‎

The Ramba"n writes in his introduction to Parshas Vayishlach that ‎this parsha is the prime example of a theme that recurs throughout ‎the book of Bereshit: Everything that happened to the Patriarchs ‎foreshadows that which will happen to their children (ma'aseh Avot ‎siman l'banim). In particular, this portion gives us guidance how to ‎deal with Eisav, the classic soneh Yisrael (hater of Israel). ‎

Ramba"n cites a Medrash that before Rabbi Yannai would meet with ‎the Roman authorities, he would read Parshas Vayishlach. This ‎parsha instructs us how to deal with Eisav on two levels-- on a ‎spiritual level and on a physical level. ‎

How do we deal with Eisav on a spiritual level? In last week's parsha, ‎after Yosef was born, Yaakov tells his wife Rachel that this was the ‎opportune moment to return to Eretz Yisrael and face Eisav. Rashi ‎comments on the implication that until Yosef was born, Yaakov could ‎not face Eisav, but with Yosef's birth, he was able to face Eisav. ‎

He relates this insight to a verse in our Haftorah: "And the House of ‎Yaakov will be a (spark of) fire and the House of Yosef with be a ‎flame and the House of Eisav will be as straw (that will be consumed ‎by this flame)..." [Ovadiah 1:18]. Rashi comments that Yaakov is ‎only a spark, he is unable to deal with Eisav by himself. But when ‎Yosef, the flame, is born then Yaakov can deal with him. ‎

There is a famous Chazal: The descendants of Eisav will only be given ‎over to the descendants of Rachel. ‎

What is it about Yosef that can overcome the peril of Eisav? The ‎Shem MiShmuel answers by pointing out that names in Tanach are ‎meaningful. They are not arbitrary labels. Names define the essence of ‎the person. Eisav, he says, comes from the word 'asui' (fully done). ‎When Eisav was born, he didn't look like an infant; he was like a ‎complete individual. ‎

The spiritual threat that Eisav provides is a threat called 'asui' -- I'm ‎finished. One who feels that he is perfect and has no room to improve ‎‎-- that is what an Eisav is about. "I am fine. My Midot are fine. My ‎character is fine. There is no room for improvement. I am OK. I am ‎more than OK -- I'm perfect." ‎

This is the spiritual danger that Eisav provides, the complacency that ‎one is totally fine, with no need to improve. ‎

The opposite end of that spectrum is Yosef. He represents the constant ‎need to add on to (mosif) and grow from where one is today. ‎

Any person who thinks he can remain still and stagnant will ‎eventually descend. The antidote to the philosophy of being an 'asui' ‎‎(complete) is Yosef -- one must always add on. There is no such thing ‎in this world as standing still. One either ascends, or he automatically ‎descends. ‎

I once heard the following example: Life is like trying to go 'up' a ‎‎'down' escalator. If one tries to stay the same, he will go down. The ‎only way to go up is to exert oneself. Recognizing the need to put out a ‎maximum effort to get anyplace is the only way to ascend. ‎

This is the spiritual antidote to the philosophy of Eisav. The ‎descendants of Eisav will only be given over to the descendants of ‎Rachel. ‎

Halacha of the Week

Please note that the Halachot discussed here are according to Sephardic ‎Tradition as outlined by The Maran Shulchan Aruch. This is just a ‎summary and in no way deemed as a Halachic ruling. Please contact ‎your local Orthodox Rabbi for help. ‎

I will be reviewing the laws concerning Shabbat observance. ‎

Cutting Vegetables for a Salad on Shabbat ‎
‎ ‎
One of the thirty-nine Melachot (categories of forbidden activity) that ‎apply on shabbat is the prohibition of “Tohen,” grinding. In light of ‎this prohibition, the question arises as to whether one may cut ‎vegetables into small pieces for a salad on shabbat. For example, ‎many people prepare “Israeli salad” by cutting fine pieces of ‎cucumbers and tomatoes. Would this be permissible on shabbat, or ‎does this violate the prohibition of “Tohen”?‎

The Shulhan Aruch writes, “It is forbidden to cut vegetables very ‎fine.” According to the Shulhan Aruch, it seems, there is no basis for ‎allowing the slicing of vegetables into small pieces on shabbat, and one ‎must make the pieces bigger than he normally does when cutting ‎vegetables on shabbat.‎

However, in his Bet Yosef, Maran (author of the Shulhan Aruch) cites ‎the ruling of the Rashba (Rabbi Shelomo Ben Aderet or Barcelona, ‎‎1235-1310) that one may slice vegetables into small pieces shortly ‎before the meal in which they will be served. The Rashba draws a ‎comparison between the prohibition of “Tohen” and the prohibition ‎of “Borer” (separating undesirable items from desirable items). He ‎writes that just as Halacha permits separating undesirable food from ‎desirable food in preparation for a meal that will soon be served, ‎similarly, one may slice vegetables in close proximity to the meal. ‎Maran, after citing this ruling, notes that no authorities disputed the ‎Rashba’s position. One might therefore argue that when the Shulhan ‎Aruch codified the prohibition against finely cutting vegetables on ‎shabbat, he relied on his comments in the Bet Yosef permitting doing ‎so shortly before the meal. He forbade cutting small pieces only when ‎one cuts them for later on shabbat, but allowed cutting small pieces ‎while preparing for a meal that will soon be served, within a half-hour ‎or so of the meal. The Ben Ish Hai (Rav Yosef Haim of Baghdad, ‎‎1833-1909) observed that the prevalent practice in Baghdad followed ‎this lenient reading of the Shulhan Aruch’s ruling.‎

Hacham Ben Tzion Abba Shaul (Israel, 1923-1998), however, ‎disagreed with this reading. In his work Or Le’sion (both in vol. 1 and ‎in vol. 2), he contended that since the Shulhan Aruch made no ‎mention of this stipulation, we must assume that he forbade finely ‎slicing vegetables on shabbat under all circumstances, even just prior ‎to the meal. According to Hacham Ben Sion, one who wants to cut ‎vegetables into small pieces on shabbat may do so only if he deviates ‎from his normal manner of slicing. For example, if he normally cuts ‎vegetables on a cutting board, he should cut them on shabbat directly ‎on the counter.‎

As for the final Halacha, Hacham Ovadia Yosef, in his work Halichot ‎Olam, follows the lenient position, and allows one to cut vegetables ‎into small pieces on shabbat shortly before the meal at which they will ‎be served. He adds that one who wishes to act stringently to satisfy all ‎opinions “is worthy of blessing,” but those who wish to be lenient ‎certainly have a legitimate Halachic basis on which to rely.‎

Shabbat Shalom Umevorach-A peaceful and Blessed Shabbat
Yitzchak Alloul

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