Thursday, October 14, 2010

Yitzi’s Parsha Preview- Lech Lecha




This week’s Parsha Preview is co-dedicated to the refuah of the ‎following people:‎

Men
Reuven Mordechai Ben Chana Batya, Yaakov David Ben Sarah, ‎Avraham Ben Sarah, Menachem Mendel Ben Faigie Ruchel, Gilon ‎Chaim Ben Yonit, Ofek Ben Tali, Shimon Ben Miriam, Avraham ‎Moshe Ben Miriam Tova, Baruch Kalman Ben Leiben Jacobs, ‎Mendel Ber Ben Sarah, Aharon Ben Tamar, Shmuel Baruch Ben ‎Golda.‎

Women
Sarah Bat Channah, Chana Leah Bat Esther, Kreindel Bat Esther, ‎Kreynah Leah Bat Rachel, Simcha Bat Mazel, Sara Bat Hodda, Kyla ‎Chaya Bat Sarah Polson, Leiba Bat Devorah Esther, Tova Rochel Bat ‎Chaya and Yocheved Yaakovite bat Leah.‎

May Hashem grant them all a speedy recovery and a complete ‎healing. ‎

Daven for the release of Gilad Shalit-Gilad Ben Aviva-may Hashem ‎bring him home safe and sound. If you asked to have someone put on ‎the refuah list please update me on how these people are doing. If you ‎would like to add someone to the list please send me an e-mail ‎parshapreview@gmail.com ‎

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Parshah Lech-Lecha - Genesis 12:1-17:27‎
Torah Reading for Week of October 10-16, 2010 - Cheshvan 2-8 5771 ‎Candle Lighting for Toronto is 6:16 P.M.‎
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Number Of Mitzvot in Parshah Lech-Lecha ‎: 1‎
‎0 Mitzvot Aseh (Positive Commandments) Circumcision ‎
‎0 Mitzvot Lo Taaseh (Negative Commandments-Prohibitions)‎
Many mitzvoth are repeated in this week’s Parsha.‎


Haftora (Additional portion, from Prophets, which is read after the ‎Parsha) Yeshayahu / Isaiah 40:27 ­ 41:16‎

The Torah Reading on Shabbat day is divided into 7 sections. Each ‎section ‎is called an Aliya (meaning to go up) since for each Aliya, one ‎person "goes ‎up" to make a bracha on the Torah Reading. We invite ‎the Cohen first, ‎followed by a Levite who then in turn is followed by ‎an Israelite. When a ‎Cohen is not in attendance we call an Israelite in ‎their place, if a Levite is ‎not in attendance then the same Cohen is ‎called in their place.‎

Parsha Summary – Lech Lecha
Avram is commanded to leave Charan and travel 400 miles to the ‎Land of Canaan. (Charan was 600 miles from Ur Casdim) Upon ‎arriving, they are forced to leave Canaan, due to a local famine, and ‎travel to Mitzrayim in search of food. ‎

Avram plans for his encounter with the immoral and spiritual ‎depravity of Egypt. His and Sarah's confrontation with Pharaoh is ‎detailed. Avram and Sarah return home. ‎

Avram separates from his nephew / brother-in-law Lot, due to Lot's ‎defection from the teachings of Avram. Hashem reassures Avram that ‎he will have children, "like the dust of the earth", who will inherit the ‎Land and carry on his work. ‎

Avram is forced to rescue Lot from captivity. In so doing, he adjusts ‎the balance of power in Canaan and is recognized by the other ‎political leaders for his military and moral strength. His encounter ‎with Malki Tzedek (Shem) is in stark contrast to his confrontation ‎with the King of Sodom. ‎

Hashem again reassures Avram that he will have genetic children (not ‎just followers) who would be as numerous as the stars in the sky. ‎

The colossal "Covenant Between the Halves" takes place during ‎which the next 430 years of Jewish history is revealed. Avram is 70 ‎years old. Sarai instructs Avram to marry Hagar. The story of her ‎conflict with Sarai, her encounter with an angel, and the birth of ‎Yishmael in 2034 is told. Following the birth of Yishmael Avram's ‎name is changed to Avraham. ‎

Avraham is commanded with the Mitzvah of Circumcision. Sarai's ‎name is changed to Sarah, and Hashem assures Avraham he and ‎Sarah will have a son called Yitzchak. It is the year 2047 and ‎Avraham circumcises himself, Yishmael, and his entire household.‎

Hashem said to Abram, “Go for yourself from your land, from your ‎birthplace, and from your father’s house to the land that I will show ‎you. I will make you into a great nation; I will bless you and I will make ‎your name great. You will be a blessing, [and] I will bless those who ‎bless you; the one who curses you, I will curse. All the families of the ‎earth will be blessed through you." (Genesis 12:1-3)‎

As I sit in the Airport waiting to board my plane my thoughts turn to ‎the late 60’s. Israel thank G-d had ‎just been successful to the ‎onslaught of the combined Arab nations and the 6 day war ending ‎with the ‎re-unification of Jerusalem and access to the remnants of our ‎Beit Hamikdash restored to us. The call ‎went out to many Jews living ‎in Arab lands. The time has come to leave your homes, the land of ‎your ‎parents, the home of your father, the land where your families ‎are entrenched to a land that I will ‎reveal to you. In my parents ‎situation they had applied to France, Israel and Canada. Canada was ‎the ‎new land that we would be able to live in peace and continue in ‎the ways of our people as generations ‎before us did to serve Hashem.‎

Lech Lecha opens with Hashem's command to Avram to leave the ‎habitual backdrop of his homeland, ‎place of birth and father's ‎familiar surroundings of homeland, birthplace and father's household ‎and ‎journey to an unknown land. He was 75 years old, and from the ‎Talmud and Midrash we learn that this ‎was not the beginning of ‎Avram's devotion to G-d, but merely the start of a new and imposing ‎phase ‎of his career, the culmination of decades of dedication to ‎pursuing--and then spreading to mankind--‎the truth of His rule. Lech ‎Lecha marks the opening of G-d's prophetic revelations to Avram. ‎

Interestingly, Avram's original conclusion that the world was ‎controlled by One Supreme Being was ‎arrived at through ‎independent intellectual inquiry; lacking any teacher in his early ‎years, and ‎surrounded by idol - worshippers in the great city of Ur of ‎the Chaldees, Avram examined the ‎processes of nature and traced ‎them back to an original Cause. As Rambam writes in a famous ‎‎passage from Mishnah Torah ("Hilchot Yeshodei HaTorah"), ‎

"...his mind was busily working and reflecting until he had attained ‎the way of truth, apprehended the ‎correct line of thought, and knew ‎that there is one G-d, that He guides the celestial sphere and ‎created ‎everything, and that among all that exist, there is no god besides Him. ‎He realized that men ‎everywhere were in error, and that what had ‎occasioned their error was that they worshiped the stars ‎and the ‎images, so that the truth perished from their minds...Having attained ‎this knowledge, [at the ‎age of 40, according to Rambam, though the ‎Midrash offers alternative opinions of his age as well] he ‎began to ‎refute the inhabitants of Ur of the Chaldees..." (Yesodei HaTorah: 1, ‎‎2;).‎

Hashem's command to Avram to break with his past represents, ‎obviously, a great and gruelling test of ‎faith. At the same time, ‎Hashem promises him many blessings in return, chiefly the privilege ‎of ‎fathering a great nation dedicated to his own ideals; this is why the ‎Torah does not just say, "lech," ‎which would be a simple command ‎of, "go," but adds the word, lechah (for yourself, literally or as ‎Rashi ‎comments: "for your own benefit, for your good.")‎

Avraham took a real chance; he defied Nimrod who was the emperor ‎of the world. He went against his ‎father who was the supreme idol ‎maker of the world. If we could put things into perspective then it’s ‎‎possible that one of Terach’s idols might have had a stamp on the ‎bottom that read like, “Purveyor of ‎fine quality idols since the time of ‎Nimrod”. Nevertheless a respected member of the high court of ‎‎Nimrod. Finally, Nimrod orders Avrams execution, he is to be placed ‎in a fiery oven. With Hashem’s ‎help Avram is saved. Avram’s faith in ‎Hashem is absolute. After this episode Avram earns the title ‎‎“Ivri”.‎

The Avram from over there. The Avram with the strange ideas that ‎there is one supreme being ‎Melech Malechei Hamelachim-The King to ‎rule all kings. In contrast to the idea that one being ruled ‎the sun, one ‎for the earth, one for the moon……..you get the idea…‎

Avram’s notoriety spread and to this day we have the benefit and ‎merit of Avram’s faith in Hashem. ‎For this reason Hashem commands ‎Avram to leave.‎

Three times daily we invoke Avraham’s name during the Amidah ‎service. G-d its me!!! I am ‎bowing ‎down to your glory-bye the way in ‎case I am not worthy, my forefather was Avraham. If you ‎can’t help ‎‎me then remember Avraham as the only person to recognize your ‎specialness as the “One” ‎and only ‎master of the universe and in his ‎merit help me.‎

May we continue to benefit from Avraham’s merit for many ‎generations to come.‎

Halacha of the Week
Please note that the Halachot discussed here are according to Sephardic ‎Tradition as outlined by The Maran Shulchan Aruch. This is just a ‎summary and in no way deemed as a Halachic ruling. Please contact ‎your local Orthodox Rabbi for help. ‎

I will be reviewing the laws concerning Shabbat observance. ‎

Asking a Gentile to Activate or Deactivate an Air Conditioner on ‎Shabbat
‎ ‎
Is it permissible to ask a gentile to turn off the air conditioner in the ‎synagogue if it is too cold in the room? Many synagogues set the air ‎conditioner on a timer, so that it goes on during the day for the ‎Shabbat morning service. It occasionally happens that the air ‎conditioning is set on a timer, but the weather turns sharply colder, ‎such that the air conditioning makes it very uncomfortable in the ‎synagogue. In such a case, would it be permissible to ask a gentile to ‎turn off the air conditioning?‎

Rav Moshe Feinstein (Russia-New York, 1895-1986) addresses this ‎question and rules that one may, indeed, ask a gentile to turn off the ‎air conditioning if it is too cold in the synagogue. Rav Feinstein notes ‎the ruling of the Shulhan Aruch that people are at risk of taking ill ‎due to exposure to the cold, and this concern overrides the prohibition ‎of Amira Le’nochri (asking a gentile to perform an activity forbidden ‎for Jews). Moreover, he writes, uncomfortable conditions in the ‎synagogue may likely cause people to leave, and they will miss the ‎Torah reading, Kaddish, Kedusha and so on. Rav Moshe cites a ‎ruling of the Mishna Berura (Rav Yisrael Meir Kagan of Radin, ‎‎1839-1933) that one may ask a gentile to fix a dismantled Erub on ‎Shabbat, as this is necessary to prevent Jews from violating Shabbat. ‎Similarly, Rav Moshe writes, it would be permissible to ask a gentile to ‎deactivate the air conditioning in the synagogue to prevent people ‎from leaving.‎

In one’s home, there is even greater reason to permit asking a gentile ‎to deactivate the air conditioning in such a case, since one has nowhere ‎else to go. When the air conditioning causes discomfort in the ‎synagogue, one might have claimed, we should perhaps instruct ‎people to return home, rather than ask a gentile to turn off the air ‎conditioning. If this happens in one’s home, however, Halacha would ‎certainly not require him to go somewhere else. Therefore, if Halacha ‎allows asking a gentile to deactivate the air conditioning in the ‎synagogue, then certainly one may ask a gentile to turn off the air ‎conditioning in one’s home if it causes uncomfortably cold conditions.‎

Is it permissible to ask a gentile to turn on the air conditioning if it is ‎uncomfortably hot in the synagogue, or in one’s home? The Shulhan ‎Aruch allows asking a gentile to turn on the heat due to the fact that ‎people are sensitive to exposure to the cold and may become sick. ‎Would this also apply to turning on the air conditioning under ‎uncomfortably warm conditions?‎

The Minhat Yishak (Rav Yishak Weiss, 1902-1989) addresses this ‎question and notes an interesting story told in the Talmud ‎Yerushalmi. The Yerushalmi relates that Antoninus, the Roman ‎emperor, once embarked on a trip, and before he left he asked his ‎friend, Rabbi Yehuda Hanasi, to pray on his behalf. Rabbi Yehuda ‎prayed that God should protect the emperor from cold weather.‎

‎“I don’t need a prayer for protection against the cold,” Antoninus ‎said, “because if it gets cold I can put on a warm coat!”‎

Rabbi Yehuda then prayed that God should protect the emperor from ‎the heat. Antoninus thanked him for the prayer, noting the verse in ‎Tehillim (19:7), “Nobody can hide from His heat” (“Ve’en Nistar ‎Me’hamato”). There is no method of protecting oneself from heat, as ‎opposed to cold, from which one can shield himself by wearing layers ‎of clothing.‎

This story, the Minhat Yishak comments, demonstrates that heat ‎poses an even greater risk than cold. Therefore, if Halacha allows ‎asking a gentile to turn on the heat under cold conditions, then ‎certainly one may ask a gentile to turn on the air conditioning under ‎hot conditions. The Minhat Yishak further notes that activating an air ‎conditioner might constitute a Rabbinic prohibition (as opposed to a ‎Torah violation), and Halacha allows asking a gentile to perform an ‎act which the Sages forbade if this is necessary to alleviate discomfort. ‎Therefore, under uncomfortably hot conditions, one may ask a gentile ‎to activate the air conditioner. This applies both at home and in the ‎synagogue. This is also the ruling of the Yalkut Yosef.‎

Of course, if the home or synagogue can be made comfortable by ‎opening a window, this should be done instead of requesting the ‎services of a gentile. Our discussion here relates to especially hot ‎weather, under which conditions open windows will not alleviate the ‎discomfort.‎

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Shabbat Shalom Umevorach-A peaceful and Blessed Shabbat
Yitzchak Alloul

Wednesday, October 6, 2010

Yitzi’s Parsha Preview- Noach



Tizku Leshanim Rabbat Neimot Vtovot!! Chodesh Tov Umevorach!‎

This week’s Parsha Preview is co-dedicated to the refuah of the ‎following people:‎

Men
Reuven Mordechai Ben Chana Batya, Yaakov David Ben Sarah, ‎Avraham Ben Sarah, Menachem Mendel Ben Faigie Ruchel, Gilon ‎Chaim Ben Yonit, Ofek Ben Tali, Shimon Ben Miriam, Avraham ‎Moshe Ben Miriam Tova, Baruch Kalman Ben Leiben Jacobs, ‎Mendel Ber Ben Sarah, Aharon Ben Tamar, Shmuel Baruch Ben ‎Golda.‎

Women
Sarah Bat Channah, Chana Leah Bat Esther, Kreindel Bat Esther, ‎Kreynah Leah Bat Rachel, Simcha Bat Mazel, Sara Bat Hodda, Kyla ‎Chaya Bat Sarah Polson, Leiba Bat Devorah Esther, Tova Rochel Bat ‎Chaya and Yocheved Yaakovite bat Leah.‎

May Hashem grant them all a speedy recovery and a complete ‎healing. ‎

Daven for the release of Gilad Shalit-Gilad Ben Aviva-may Hashem ‎bring him home safe and sound. If you asked to have someone put on ‎the refuah list please update me on how these people are doing. If you ‎would like to add someone to the list please send me an e-mail
‎parshapreview@gmail.com

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Parshah Noach - Genesis 6:9-11:32 Torah Reading for Week of ‎October 3-9, 2010 - Tishrei 25-Cheshvan 1, 5771‎
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Number Of Mitzvot in Parshah Noach: 0‎
‎0 Mitzvot Aseh (Positive Commandments) ‎
‎0 Mitzvot Lo Taaseh (Negative Commandments-Prohibitions)‎
Many mitzvoth are repeated in this week’s Parsha.‎

Rosh Chodesh Cheshvan ‎ Friday & Shabbat Parshat Noach - ‎October 8 – 9, 2010.‎ We take out two Sifrei Torah; seven Aliyahs in ‎first Sefer Torah from the weekly Parsha - Noach: Maftir reads from ‎the second Torah from Parshat Pinchat. The Maftir reads the special ‎Haftora for Shabbat and Rosh Chodesh (Yeshayahu / Isaiah 66:1-24, ‎repeating verse 23 at the end).‎

The Torah Reading on Shabbat day is divided into 7 sections. Each ‎section ‎is called an Aliya (meaning to go up) since for each Aliya, one ‎person "goes ‎up" to make a bracha on the Torah Reading. We invite ‎the Cohen first, ‎followed by a Levite who then in turn is followed by ‎an Israelite. When a ‎Cohen is not in attendance we call an Israelite in ‎their place, if a Levite is ‎not in attendance then the same Cohen is ‎called in their place.‎

Parsha Summary – Noach
A righteous man is introduced in contrast to a generation that "has ‎perverted its ways". Hashem instructs him to build, an ark and place ‎in it every living creature on the land. ‎

Noach is told to enter the Ark along with all the animals. On ‎Cheshvan 17, 1656 - October 27, 2106 B.C.E. the flood began. ‎

For 40 days and nights the waters increased, destroying all living ‎things. The water raged upon the surface of the earth for 150 days, ‎and then diminished for the next 150. On Nissan 17, May 23, the Ark ‎rested upon Mt. Ararat. Noach sends out the Raven and then the ‎Dove, and on Cheshvan 27,October 27, exactly 1 solar year after it ‎began, the earth was dry. ‎

Noach and his family exit the Tayvah, and offer sacrifices to Hashem. ‎They are commanded to keep the 7 Noahide mitzvot. Hashem ‎promises to never again destroy the world and designates the rainbow ‎as the symbol of that covenant. ‎

The story of Noach, the vineyard, and the subsequent blessings and ‎curses is related. The descendants of Cham, Yefet, and Canaan are ‎listed. ‎

The story of the Tower of Babel in 1996 and Nimrod's world ‎dominance is told. The 10 generations of Shem, culminating in the ‎introduction of Avram and Sarai, are listed. The year is 2023. Note ‎that Avram was 48 years old when the Tower of Babel took place and ‎he was 56 years old when Noach died. ‎

Make yourself an ark of gopher wood; make the ark with compartments, and tar it inside and out with pitch. (Genesis 6:13)

Rashi’s (Shlomo Yitzhaki 1040 -1105, better known by the acronym RAbbi SHlomo Itzhaki), asks why did the Almighty command Noach to build an Ark? Was it not in Hashem’s power to bring salvation through different means. Rashi gives the answer. That people will see Noach building this monstrosity of an Ark and ask Noach what are you doing?

Noach’s answer to his generation. Hashem commanded me to build this Ark because he intends to destroy the world unless you change your evil ways and repent. This is the story that we are all taught as young children. After all it does make an excellent story book to help get children off to sleep. It has everything you need for a Disney blockbuster. Peril, storms, heroes, villains and a happy rainbow. Why is this story included in the Torah and why is it the second important message of the Book of Genesis?

In order to understand this story with greater depth we need to establish some basic ground rules that the Torah follows time and time again.

1. The Torah is not a history book.
2. The Torah does not use flowery or ten cent words to describe situations.
3. No extra words are used.
4. The Torah is not a book of Grammer. Words used are specific and direct.
5. If a person is named specifically by the Torah then they are considered righteous. E.g. Avraham, Yitzchak, and Moshe.
6. If a wicked person is specifically named by the Torah then it had no choice because they were central to the message. E.g. Nimrod, Ephron the Hittite, Balak, and Bilaam.? Otherwise they are given titles, Pharaoh, Potiphar.

What was the terrible sin of Noach's generation that God sought to destroy them? The Talmud (Sanhedrin 57a) tells us that the world was immersed in jealousy, greed, theft, violence, lying, intolerance, deception and fraud. The worst of all transgressions? Explain the great commentators Rashi and Ibn Ezra: People exploited each other sexually. Furthermore, this last item was not just exclusive to mankind but to the Animal kingdom as well.

Very little is known of Noach. We have no description of his youth, and the bulk of his life. What we do know is the following:

Noach lineage is given and at the age of 500 Hashem commands him to ‎build the Ark. Noach finds favour in the eyes of G-d. Noach is a Tzaddik ‎and perfect in his generation.

Hashem entrusts Noach with a tremendous responsibility. You are to save the world!

It took Noach 120 years to build the Ark. Its size to give you perspective was 21 NBA regulation basketball courts. It had three floors. It was built on a mountain top for all the people to see and thus aid them to repent. Could you imagine Noach building his Ark today say at Bathurst and Lawrence and advising each passerby “repent from your wicked ways, G-d is sending a flood to destroy the world”. How many text messages or emails would Noach have sent to save people of his generation? How many did Noach save? A grand total of eight!!! They were all his family.

Noach saw the Ark as his own ticket to survival ― a chance to build a big wall and insulate himself from the evils of society. He did not reach out to his fellow person.

Avoid contact with the general population, insulate your children, and interact with only those you see eye to eye with. Do business with only those of your kind. How far has this insular perspective gotten our people.
The Kabbalists explain that "taiva," the Hebrew word for "ark," also means "word." We need to use our words to influence our friends, relatives and neighbor’s. We all want to “protect” our families and our homes to build our own personal ark. Yet at the same time we are obligated to use the power of words to reach out and influence others. Noah was given 120 years to build his "taiva." We are given 120 years-ad meyah vesrim shana ― a full lifetime ― to do the same.

What can we do? We can attend a Torah class and teach over what we've learned to others. We can open our homes to the unaffiliated Jew. Invite a friend to attend a lecture on a Jewish topic. Invite a friend out during the week to a kosher dinner.

How successful do you think Noach would have been had it been our generation? We can ask the question of our generation. Since Noach built the Ark has mankind changed its ways?

We just spent the better part of a month engaged in the act of self-inspection. Looking at our actions and planning how we need to change. Making plans and promises to ourselves. Perhaps the story of Noach and his ark is presented here at this time and as the second major encounter with Hashem is too stir us to action. To put all of that self-inspection into action. Tou came closer to G-d through Tefilah (Prayer), Tseuvah (repentance) and Tzadakah (Charity), now go out and put it to good use.

It’s time to speak up, change, reach out and influence….


Halacha of the Week

Please note that the Halachot discussed here are according to Sephardic ‎Tradition as outlined by The Maran Shulchan Aruch. This is just a ‎summary and in no way deemed as a Halachic ruling. Please contact ‎your local Orthodox Rabbi for help. ‎

I will be reviewing the laws concerning Shabbat observance. ‎

Allowing a Gentile to Voluntarily Perform a Melacha on Shabbat; ‎Making an Indirect Request to a Gentile on Shabbat
Generally speaking, Halacha forbids instructing a gentile to perform ‎Melacha (activity forbidden on Shabbat) on a Jew's behalf on ‎Shabbat (The exception to this rule is to safeguard life). Moreover, as ‎noted by the Mishna Berura (commentary to the Shulhan Aruch by ‎Rabbi Yisrael Kagan, 1839-1933) in Siman 276 (11), if a gentile ‎voluntarily offers to perform a Melacha on a Jew's behalf, the Jew ‎must object and instruct the gentile to desist. Even though the gentile ‎acts voluntarily, and not at the Jew's behest, the Jew must nevertheless ‎voice his objection since the gentile seeks to perform a Melacha on his ‎behalf. (Needless to say, one need not stop a gentile from performing ‎Melacha on Shabbat for his own purposes.) This applies even if the ‎Jew has no intention of deriving any benefit from the action the ‎gentile seeks to perform. If the gentile acts in order to do a service to ‎the Jew, the Jew must object.‎

One common example of this Halacha arises when a non-Jewish ‎housekeeper volunteers to turn on a light in a dark room for her ‎Jewish employer. Not only does Halacha forbid instructing or asking ‎her to turn on the light, it also requires the Jew to tell her not to turn ‎on the light if she offers to do so. Similarly, if the gardener arrives on ‎Shabbat to work on the lawn, one must instruct him not to do so. (Of ‎course, one should clarify from the outset when hiring a gardener that ‎no gardening work should be done on Shabbat or holidays.)‎

If a person sits in a dimly-lit room, where there is sufficient light for ‎whichever activity he wishes to perform in that room (e.g. reading or ‎eating), he may indirectly ask a gentile to turn on a light by indicating ‎his desire for additional illumination. Thus, for example, if the lights ‎are turned off but the sunlight from the windows provides enough ‎light to read, one who wishes some additional light may say to his ‎gentile housekeeper, "This room could use some more light." ‎Although he may not explicitly request that she turn on the light, he ‎may, in this situation, express his request indirectly. This is the ruling ‎of several authorities, including the Hida (Rav Haim Yosef David ‎Azulai, 1724-1806) in his Birke Yosef (307:6), the Ben Ish Hai (Rav ‎Yosef Haim of Baghdad, 1833-1909) in his Rav Pe'alim (Orah Haim ‎‎83), and Hacham Ovadia Yosef in Halichot Olam (vol. 3, p. 179).‎

If the room is dark, however, such that one cannot perform the ‎desired activity in the room, then he may not ask a gentile even ‎indirectly to turn on a light. Indirect requests are allowed only in cases ‎where there is sufficient light and one seeks additional illumination.‎

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Shabbat Shalom Umevorach-A peaceful and Blessed Shabbat
Yitzchak Alloul

Monday, September 27, 2010

Yitzi’s Parsha Preview- Bereisheet



Moadim Lesimcha Chagim Lezmanim Lesason- Tizku Leshanim ‎Rabbot Neimot Vtovot!!‎

This week’s Parsha Preview is co-dedicated to the refuah of the ‎following people:‎

Men
Reuven Mordechai Ben Chana Batya, Yaakov David Ben Sarah, ‎Avraham Ben Sarah, Menachem Mendel Ben Faigie Ruchel, Gilon ‎Chaim Ben Yonit, Ofek Ben Tali, Shimon Ben Miriam, Avraham ‎Moshe Ben Miriam Tova, Baruch Kalman Ben Leiben Jacobs, ‎Mendel Ber Ben Sarah, Aharon Ben Tamar, Shmuel Baruch Ben ‎Golda.‎

Women
Sarah Bat Channah, Chana Leah Bat Esther, Kreindel Bat Esther, ‎Kreynah Leah Bat Rachel, Simcha Bat Mazel, Sara Bat Hodda, Kyla ‎Chaya Bat Sarah Polson, Leiba Bat Devorah Esther, Tova Rochel Bat ‎Chaya and Yocheved Yaakovite bat Leah.‎

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Parshah Bereisheet - Genesis 1:1-6:8 Torah Reading for Week of ‎September 26-October 2, 2010-18th of Tishrei-24th of Tishrei

Candle Lighting for Shemini Atzeret on Wednesday September 29th, ‎in Toronto is 6:44 P.M.‎
Candle Lighting for Shemini Atzeret on Wednesday September 29th, ‎‎in Thornhill is 6:44 P.M.‎

Erev Tavshilin

Number Of Mitzvot in Parshah Bereisheet: 1‎
‎1 Mitzvot Aseh (Positive Commandments) ‎
‎0 Mitzvot Lo Taaseh (Negative Commandments-Prohibitions)‎


Haftora: (Additional portion, from Prophets, which is read after the ‎Parsha) ‎
Yeshayahu / Isaiah 42:5 - 43:10‎

Shabbat Mevarchim Chodesh Cheshvan
Friday & Shabbat Parshat Noach - October 8 – 9, 2010.‎
The Molad for Rosh Chodesh Cheshvan is Friday October 8, 2010, ‎‎8:20 A.M. and 2 Chalakim Jerusalem Time.‎

The Torah Reading on Shabbat day is divided into 7 sections. Each ‎section ‎is called an Aliya (meaning to go up) since for each Aliya, one ‎person "goes ‎up" to make a bracha on the Torah Reading. We invite ‎the Cohen first, ‎followed by a Levite who then in turn is followed by ‎an Israelite. When a ‎Cohen is not in attendance we call an Israelite in ‎their place, if a Levite is ‎not in attendance then the same Cohen is ‎called in their place.‎

Parsha Summary – Bereisheet
The creation of the universe is detailed day by day concluding with ‎the creation of Shabbat. Note the emphasis on Speciation throughout ‎the six day account. ‎

The creation of Adam and Chava and the story of Gan Eden is ‎detailed. ‎

Adam and Chava are expelled from Gan Eden and the story of Kayin ‎and Hevel is related. ‎

Chronologically, the time covered in Parshat Bereisheet is from year 1 ‎‎(the creation of humankind) through the birth of Noach's three sons ‎in 1556. The final three Aliyot list the 10 generations from Adam ‎through Noach that lived during that time, as well as the degeneration ‎of man's relationship with Hashem. It is important to note that ‎Noach's generation was the first generation not to have personally ‎known Adam. ‎

In the beginning of G-d’s creating the heavens and the earth, (Genesis ‎‎1:1)‎

The first and one of the most famous Rashi’s (Shlomo Yitzhaki 1040 ‎‎-1105, better known by the acronym RAbbi SHlomo Itzhaki), of the ‎Torah asks why the Torah begins with B'reishit, rather than with the ‎first mitzvah commanded to B'nei Yisrael, the mitzva of Kiddush ‎HaChodesh (sanctification of the New Moon-The First commandment ‎given to Israel Exodus 12:2). Rabbi Yitzchak gives the answer that by ‎starting with B'reishit, G-d makes it crystal clear that he is in charge, ‎He is the Maker, the Boss, He is the Creator. Since, He is the one who ‎gives and takes away come the time that Bnei Yisrael are ready to ‎occupy the land of Eretz Yisrael they will not be considered bandits ‎and as Hsahem promised Avraham, Yitzchak and Yaakov that their ‎descendants had a G-d given right to the land. He gives the land to ‎whom he chooses and takes it away from whom he chooses.‎

However, there is perhaps another important reason why the Torah ‎begins as it does rather than with a specific mitzvah (commandment) ‎or with the events of the Exodus from Egypt, the splitting of the sea, ‎or the revelation at Sinai.‎

Why did G-d choose to identify Himself in the Aseret HaDibrot (the ‎Ten Commandments) as the one who took us out of Egypt, rather ‎than as the one who created the world? God has identified himself in ‎both of these ways -- one way in the Aseret HaDibrot (The Ten ‎Commandments) and the other way in the rest of the Torah.‎

What is He telling us?‎

In the beginning of B'reishit, G-d makes it clear to us that we are part ‎of creation. We are human beings, in essence, the special focus of the ‎entire process of creation. And as such, we share this world of his with ‎more than 6 billion other humans and countless other species of plants ‎and animals. We have privileges as humans, and awesome ‎obligations. We cannot shirk our responsibilities to the environment, ‎to the balance of nature or to a basic humane moral code. This is ‎what G-d is saying to us when he begins his Torah with, "In the ‎beginning..." As a rag tag band of former slaves to Egypt stood at the ‎foot of Har Sinai, we became a distinct nation. G-d did not just say, "I ‎am G-d... Who created the world." He said, "...Who took you out of ‎Egypt, out of the house of slaves." This was a unique Jewish ‎experience. By identifying Himself in this more exclusive way, He ‎explained that the Torah is not for everyone. There are basic laws of ‎moral conduct that are for everyone, but there are also the additional ‎‎613 mitzvot of the Torah that we alone must follow. Moreover as the ‎famous Midrash states, G-d approached all the nations of the world ‎offering them the opportunity to have the Torah as their very own to ‎which they all declined. Only Bnei Yisrael accepted without condition. ‎They were the only nation to accept Hashem’s offer into this exclusive ‎club.‎

It is as if every human being is issued a membership card to be a part ‎of the human race. The card comes with obligations and benefits, and ‎there are dues to be paid. Good people pay their dues, bad people ‎don't. A requirement of gold cardholders is that they meet all their ‎obligations as good people.‎

We have two sedras, B'reishit and No'ach, to remind us of the ‎‎"regular world membership" and the requirements it entails. After ‎that, we watch the development of the gold cardholders through the ‎rest of B'reishit. It is not always pleasant to be reminded of, but we ‎have a lot to learn from the actions of our Avot and the tribes. Once ‎we get to Sh'mot, we witness the family transformed into a nation.‎

Had the Torah started with the first mitzvah, it would have been as if ‎God was isolating us from the rest of the world and absolving us of ‎our responsibilities to the larger society. We are to be “a light unto the ‎nations” (Isaiah 42:6). We did not trade Tishrei for Nissan as the New ‎Year when we came out of Egypt and received the Torah at Sinai, ‎hence we have two beginnings to our year. ‎

This idea can be seen in many of our prayers. Look at the two ‎brachot before Sh'ma. The first speaks of Creation and does not ‎specifically mention Torah and mitzvot. The second bracha speaks of ‎the deep mutual love between G-d and his People. The same idea is ‎echoed in Birkat HaMazon. The first bracha refers to our ‎membership in the human race and our identification with all of G-d's ‎creations. The second bracha focuses on the Land of Israel, the Torah, ‎the Covenant of Brit Mila.‎

This is a pattern that occurs over and over again. We have a dual ‎mandate from G-d. We must relate to Him with B'reishit Bara Elokim ‎In the beginning of G-d’s creating ‎...and also as Anochi Hashem ‎Elokecha (I am Hashem-your G-d).‎

Each presents its own challenge. We must meet both of them.‎

Halacha of the Week

Please note that the Halachot discussed here are according to Sephardic ‎Tradition as outlined by The Maran Shulchan Aruch. This is just a ‎summary and in no way deemed as a Halachic ruling. Please contact ‎your local Orthodox Rabbi for help. ‎

How to Prepare an Eruv Tavshilin? ‎
Halacha forbids cooking from Yom Tov to Shabbat unless one had ‎prepared an Eruv Tavshilin before Yom Tov. Since the Chag of ‎Shemini Azeret falls this year on Wednesday Night, then one prepares ‎the Eruv Tavshilin on Wednesday.‎

Of what should the Eruv Tavshilin consist?‎
Strictly speaking, it suffices to prepare a single cooked food; ‎customarily, a boiled egg is used for this purpose. Although preparing ‎one cooked item suffices to allow both cooking and baking on Yom ‎Tov for Shabbat (Shulchan Aruch 527:2), nevertheless, the custom is ‎to include bread in the Eruv Tavshilin, as well.‎

What quantity of food is required for the Eruv Tavshilin?‎
Chacham Bentzion Abba Shaul (Jerusalem, 1924-1998), in his work ‎Or Le'tziyon (vol. 3, 22:1), writes that the cooked food should have a ‎volume of a Ke'zayit – or approximately 1 oz. – and the bread should ‎have a volume of a Ke'beitza – approximately 2 oz.‎

Chacham Bentzion Abba Shaul adds that the foods should preferably ‎have been cooked and baked specifically on Erev Yom Tov, and not ‎earlier. Nevertheless, one who set aside foods that were prepared ‎earlier has satisfied the requirement and is allowed to cook on Yom ‎Tov in preparation for Shabbat.‎

The Options Available to One Who Forgot to Prepare an Eruv Tavshilin ‎Before Yom Tov.‎
One option is to rely on the Eruv Tavshilin prepared by the ‎community's Rabbi. A community Rabbi has in mind when ‎preparing an Eruv Tavshilin that his Eruv should serve to permit ‎cooking on Yom Tov not only for himself and his family, but also for ‎everyone in his community who forgot to prepare an Eruv or is ‎unaware of this requirement. Thus, one who forgot to prepare an ‎Eruv may simply rely on the Rabbi's Eruv and cook on Yom Tov in ‎preparation for Shabbat.‎

Monday, September 6, 2010

The Awesome Holiness of Yom Kippur


This special edition of Yitzi's Parsha Preview is dedicated in Memory of my mother's Yartzeit Ramo Bat Avraham may her neshama have an aliyah and her memory act as a blessing to us all.
The Torah States in Parsha Acharei in the book of Vayikra 16:29


“This shall remain for you an eternal decree: In the seventh month, on the tenth day of the month, you shall afflict yourselves, and you shall not do any work, neither the native nor the convert who dwells among you.”


“For on this day He shall provide atonement for you to cleanse you; from all your sins before Hashem shall you be cleansed.”

The Sefer HaChinuch (Rabbi Aharon HaLevi of Barcelona 1235-c. 1290), mitzvah 185 writes;

“The basis of this mitzvah is due to God’s kindness towards the Jewish people He established one day a year upon which they can atone for their sins by the teshuvah they do. If there sins would accumulate each year, their limit would be reached within a few years and the world would have to be destroyed. Therefore, in order for the world to exist, God, in His wisdom, established one day a year to enable those who repent to receive atonement for their sins.”

In order to understand the deeper meaning of atonement we must look at the concept of sin (averot) and Repentance (Teshuva). Averot can be classified into two sub categories broken down as follows:

Mitzvot Bien Adam L’chavero –Laws between Man and his friend. Speaking Lashon Hara loosely translated as speaking ill of others is an example of this category.

Mitzvot Bein Adam L’Makom- Laws between Man and G-d. Hanging a mezuzah is an example of this category.

So how does Hashem forgive us I won’t go into specific detail. For a deeper understanding of how to achieve atonement please see http://parshapreview.blogspot.com/2010/09/rosh-hashanah-why-does-it-take-so-long.html listed is a breakdown of how to do Teshuvah.

Hashem forgives us as follows:

When we transgress a Mitzvah Bein Adam L’chavero we need to seek out the person we wronged and ask their forgivness.

There are very specific Halachot (Jewish Law) regarding the asking of forgiveness:

The Shulhan Aruch (Orah Haim 606:1) writes:

“One does not earn atonement on Yom Kippur for offenses committed against other people unless he receives their forgiveness. Therefore, it is imperative for a person to approach those people whom he has wronged during the year to ask them forgiveness before Yom Kippur. This applies to both financial and verbal offenses. In the case of a financial offense, of course, one must also return the funds in question.”

“If the victim does not grant forgiveness when the offender first approaches him, the offender should return to him, as many as three times. He then earns atonement even if the victim still refuses to forgive.”

As the Be’ur Halacha (commentary by Rabbi Yisrael Meir Kagan, 1839-1933) notes, it appears from the Shulhan Aruch’s presentation of this Halacha that a person should approach the victim accompanied by three people. Even when he approaches the victim for the first time, according to the Shulhan Aruch, he should bring three people along with him. The Rambam (Rabbi Moshe Maimonides, 1135-1204), however, on the basis of the Talmud Yerushalmi, maintains that when the offender approaches the victim for the first time he does not have to bring three people with him. If the victim refuses to forgive, then he should return as many as three times together with three other people. The Kaf Ha’haim (Rabbi Yaakov Haim Sofer, 1870-1939) writes that the accepted practice follows the Rambam’s view, and thus one is not required to bring three people the first time he approaches his fellow to request forgiveness.

The importance of requesting forgiveness from one’s fellow before Yom Kippur cannot be overstated. According to some opinions, one cannot even earn atonement for sins committed against God if he does not receive forgiveness from the people whom he had wronged. Furthermore, the Kaf Ha’haim writes that if a person does not seek his friend’s forgiveness before Yom Kippur, then the prosecuting angel comes before God and argues against this person. The angel contends that the person is not concerned about his sins, as evidenced by his unwillingness to ask for his fellow’s forgiveness, and therefore should not be granted atonement on Yom Kippur. One must therefore make every effort before Yom Kippur to make amends with all those whom he had wronged over the course of the year.
Finally, the Sages also emphasize the importance of granting forgiveness to others. The Rabbis teach that one should not be “cruel” by refusing to grant forgiveness to somebody who offended him. A person who willingly grants forgiveness to others will earn God’s forgiveness for whatever sins he may have committed.

Once transgressions are forgiven by man can we proceed to the next level of forgiveness from Hashem.
So this whole process commences with Rosh Chodesh Elul. A great example of this would be a summons to court. An individual summoned to court does not wait till the day of their trial to commence the defense.

Many months prior to the court date a solid defence is planned till the day they face their judge.
So too the process of Teshuvah begins. The month of Elul is set aside to begin our preparation for repentance. We find a remez (hint) in the name of the month. "Elul" has been interpreted as an acronym, with its Hebrew letters "Aleph," "Lamed," "Vav," "Lamed" representing the words "Ani L'Dodi V'Dodi Li" (Song of Songs: 6,3). The words mean "I am my Beloved's and my Beloved is mine," where my "Beloved" is G-d, and "I" am the Jewish People.

Of course Teshuvah can begin at any time, however, Rosh Chodesh Elul is considered a very auspicious time. In our quest for forgiveness we move onto the next level.

It is written in the Talmud, in the tractate on Rosh Hashanah that three books of account are opened on Rosh ha-Shanah, wherein the fate of the wicked, the righteous, and those of an intermediate class are recorded. The names of the righteous are immediately inscribed in the book of life, and they are sealed "to live." The middle class are allowed a respite of ten days till Yom Kippur, to repent and become righteous ; the wicked are "blotted out of the book of the living" .

Rabbi Nehorai said, "Why were ten days of Divine Compassion granted the Jewish People? It was compensation for the Ten Tests that 'Avraham Avinu' "took" and passed, as it were, with "flying colors;" therefore, HaShem gave his descendants the Ten Days between Rosh HaShanah and Yom HaKippurim.

And corresponding to the Ten Commandments that the Jewish People accepted wholeheartedly, did HaShem promise that if the Jewish People would do "Teshuvah" during the Ten Days between Rosh HaShanah and Yom HaKippurim, that He would accept it wholeheartedly!
(Tana Devei Eliyahu Zuta; Chapter 22)
Finally, the awesome holiness of Yom Kippur the addition of the Neil’a service is recited. The literal translation of the name Neil’a means “closing”. This alludes to the fact that that the holy Day of atonement is drawing to a close, at which time the gates of Heavenly Mercy wiil be closed. In this prayer, the standard Yom Kippur Amidah are recited, but the Vidduy concludes with a paragraph that speaks of Hashem’s wish that man repent rather than suffer punishment. It inspires one to seize the opportunity during the closing minutes of the day to achieve true and sincere repentance.

May this year bring much Bracha, Hatzlacha for all of Knesset Yisrael and that we merit the return of The Beit Hamikdash and the true atonement that Yom Kippur service brings.

Gmar Chatimah Tovah!!

Sunday, September 5, 2010

Rosh Hashanah – Why does it take so long to get to the Shofar and the meals?


By: Fred Rutman


Why does Jewish ritual take so long? Why do we have to repeat everything? And what are we really doing on Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur. (Credit to Rabbonim Akiva Tatz, Breitowitz, Avi Geller, Mayer Birnbaum & Yitzchak Alloul and apologies to anyone I forgot.) Also, thanks to Jon Waldman for his editing.


Some insight for Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur
This is the formal version of some thoughts I wanted to share at my nephew Zane’s Bar Mitzvah (Parsha Ki Teitse) a couple weeks ago. It was inspired by a talk I had with my brother Ray, my sister-in-law Linda and her family when they were visiting Toronto a number of weeks ago. It is not designed to be a Halachic discussion or to cover everything, so as usual, if you have questions, contact me but preferably, your local orthodox Rabbi.


When the question came up of why do things take so long and why do we repeat things, I was able to give the standard answer that the repetitions are for those who are unable or don’t even know they are supposed to be saying the Amidahs (the silent prayers). So while this is true, it is not a satisfying answer. And I think when people ask this question, they are often really saying I am not connecting with my Yiddishkeit or this ritual. How do I make it more meaningful?


This got me thinking - not in time to give a proper answer then, but a better answer now. And this answer leads into the Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur services, where a big part of the goal is to get your spiritual white board erased so that only the good deeds you did are noted and you get inscribed for a healthy, sweet and prosperous year. Keep this thought in mind as you read through and it will connect at the end and hopefully makes Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur (and our prayer ritual) more meaningful to you.


The first thing to note is that when we say the silent prayers (and yes, I said say), you are supposed to mouth the words in an undertone so that only you can hear them, but ultimately, most of us don’t have that level of control and the people around us can hear what we say. This becomes doubly important in the Rosh Hashana and Yom Kippur prayers.


If you ever studied or read the Amidahs, you might have noticed that they are not written in the singular but in the plural. We are in fact praying as a collective for the entire Jewish nation. There are a few places where you can insert personal prayers (and you should) but for the most part, our liturgy is in the plural. When we do the first Amidah, think of it as your opportunity to petition on behalf of a group, association, community or whatever to the most accomplished and powerful person you know in a one-on-one setting. This person has the power to grant everything you want, or nothing or anywhere in between. Nonetheless, you have that 5 or 8 or ten minutes of his/her undivided attention to make your case. Most of us would not pass up that opportunity. That is the first Amidah.


In the repetition, we do much of the same thing. All in the plural again and davening as a proxy for those who cannot, be it health reasons, they don’t know how to, or maybe even they are Jews who do not even know they are Jews. It is part of the Jewish social contract and Zane’s parsha was full of the Torah defined social contract: things we need to do, never leaving anyone behind. It is our obligation to pray for those as a committee, not as intimate as the one-on-one but we still have the undivided attention.


Now knowing this, what does this have to do with Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur? Don’t we just go to Shul, repent, have some good meals, wait ten days, fast if we can, pray again, then eat again (and if you are normal, go back to doing whatever it was you just asked to be forgiven for?). Well, it is not quite that simple. Yes, you get points for going to Shul and thinking about things while in shul. The problem is we don’t actually do any repenting in our Rosh Hashana prayer service. Even the Al Chayts (the sins where we go through a laundry list of sins) - those are not actually for our individual sins. As with before, we pray in the plural. And on top of that, we don’t follow the entire repentance formula.

Repentance formula? There is a repentance formula? Yes there is. It would be pretty silly of G*d to ask us to repent and not give us the rules as to how to actually repent (or the Hebrew, Tshuvah). According to the great scholar Maimonides (aka the Rambam), the basic formula is:
1. Admit your sin,
2. Express remorse, and
3. Take on a sincere obligation to not do it again, or reduce what you do, or something. If it is not sincere, you are just lying to G*d face-to-face and that is probably not a good idea. That almost makes you a Rasha (the evil son we talk about at the Passover Seder).


Now that we have the basic formula, we need to talk about the two major categories of sins; then the formula will make more sense. The sin categories are divided just like the Ten Commandments – with sins between you and G*d on the left side (one through five, even though five is honour thy parents – G*d is all our parents) and the right side, sins six through ten represent sins between man and man, man and child, woman and woman, woman and child, man and woman... I think you get the drift. Person to Person.

The level of difficulty for cleaning out your sins on the right side (person-to-person) is infinitely more difficult because it has an added step to the formula, Step Zero. G*d is much less involved in this one but still notices it. The laws surrounding this category are complex and way beyond this note. Zero requires you trying to apologize to the person and have them say they forgive you, making restitution if required and of course doing the same if someone asks you to forgive them. Face-to-face is best, but you can also send letters, faxes, emails or text them: whatever gets the job done. Once Zero is fulfilled, you can get on to 1, 2 and 3. Given how difficult this is, you are better off just sinning between you and G*d. Takes a lot of the pressure off.


So now we know we have categories of sin, that we should “say” our prayers, why we repeat them and have a formula for doing repentance so all is good, right? Sorry, there is one more layer. Because we have to say our prayers with some degree of voice, G*d doesn’t want us airing our dirty laundry in shul. So two things happen:

1. When we do the All Chayts we are doing them in the collective and in broad categories. We are not admitting our individual specific sins, which is what we need to do. Thus, there is work that needs to be done on this and it will be explained in a few lines.


2. Again, we are praying in the plural. So when we do the All Chayts and other bits of repenting, we can only do the first two parts: admit and show remorse. The third part, obligating someone to change their behaviours, we cannot do as a collective. I cannot obligate you to do something and you cannot obligate me. Besides, I don’t know what obligations you need to take on, nore do you know mine. Thus, we are not doing personal repentance on Rosh Hashana & Yom Kippur. What does this mean? It means that we have to do this ourselves and for most of us, outside of the regular prayer services.

Fortunately, G*d doesn’t leave us hanging and desperately wants us to go against nature here. G*d wants us to have a second chance to make a good first impression. And not just a second chance, a third and a forth and a fifth and well, as many chances as you can generate. We do this through personal Tshuva, using the formula as often as we can.


The sages tell us that in particular, we are supposed to use the 30 days of this month, Elul, to do Tshuva/Repentance. And again, in the days between Rosh Hashana and Yom Kippur, do some more. Pick out a few things you know you can improve on. Don’t pick a bunch as that is a recipe for failure. I would say five max (and again, these are the sins between you and G*d, not you and other people). A couple of examples might be:
• I don’t keep Shabbat,
• I am sorry I did not keep Shabbat,
• I will keep Shabbat this year (or once a month, or Friday evening) or some derivation of this.

Again, it must be sincere. Or perhaps you don’t keep kosher. So the drill is the same:
• I did not keep kosher,
• I am sorry that I did not keep kosher,
• I will keep kosher (or I will eat a kosher meal once a week, or on a Shabbat etc).


How many times do you have to do this? Maybe this image will help. As mentioned before, we are trying to clean off the bad things from our spiritual white board. And if you noticed any white boards, many of them have residue and images on them after they have been erased. The more you use this formula, the better the eraser and cleaning fluid G*d provides. Once is great, twice is better. As many times as you can fit in will really help you out. And the more you do this, the more powerful your thoughts will be in the communal prayers.

I hope this gave you some additional insights into the Holy Days. In the spirit of the commandments six though ten, I unconditionally forgive you for anything you may have done to me, knowingly or unknowingly. I ask the same of you, to unconditionally forgive me for anything I might have done to you, knowingly or unknowingly.


In addition, if someone asks you to forgive them, as hard as it may be, please do so even if they don’t really deserve it. Why do it? Because there may be a time when you need to be forgiven and may not merit forgiveness and in those times, both people and G*d will remember when you did some selfless forgiving. Just one more deposit in the spiritual bank account.

I wish you all a good year, of health, peace happiness and sweetness.




For the all chayts http://www.aish.com/h/hh/yk/48952266.html

Wednesday, September 1, 2010

Yitzi’s Parsha Preview- Nitzavim-Vayelech


This week’s Parsha Preview is co-dedicated to the refuah of the following people:

Men
Reuven Mordechai Ben Chana Batya, Yaakov David Ben Sarah, Avraham Ben Sarah, Menachem Mendel Ben Faigie Ruchel, Gilon Chaim Ben Yonit, Ofek Ben Tali, Shimon Ben Miriam, Avraham Moshe Ben Miriam Tova, Baruch Kalman Ben Leiben Jacobs, Mendel Ber Ben Sarah, Aharon Ben Tamar, Shmuel Baruch Ben Golda.

Women
Sarah Bat Channah, Chana Leah Bat Esther, Kreindel Bat Esther, Kreynah Leah Bat Rachel, Simcha Bat Mazel, Sara Bat Hodda, Kyla Chaya Bat Sarah Polson, Leiba Bat Devorah Esther, Tova Rochel Bat Chaya and Yocheved Yaakovite bat Leah.

May Hashem grant them all a speedy recovery and a complete healing.

Daven for the release of Gilad Shalit-Gilad Ben Aviva-may Hashem bring him home safe and sound. If you asked to have someone put on the refuah list please update me on how these people are doing. If you would like to add someone to the list please send me an e-mail parshapreview@gmail.com

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Parsha Nitzavim-Vayelech - Deuteronomy 29:9-31:30
Torah Reading for Week of Aug 29-Sep 4,2010 - Elul 19-25 5770

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Number Of Mitzvot in Parshah Nitzavim: 0
0 Mitzvot Aseh (Positive Commandments)
0 Mitzvot Lo Taaseh (Negative Commandments-Prohibitions)

Number Of Mitzvot in Parshah Vayelech: 2
Some count the mitzvah of T'shuva (repentance) from this Parsha.
2 Mitzvot Aseh (Positive Commandments)
0 Mitzvot Lo Taaseh (Negative Commandments-Prohibitions)

Haftora: (Additional portion, from Prophets, which is read after the Parsha)
Yeshayahu / Isaiah 61:10 - 63:9 שוש אשיש
This is the last of seven Haftorot, - the שבע דנחמתא - the Seven Haftorot of Consolation, that precede Rosh HaShana).

Saturday night, after midnight, or in the early hours of the morning, Ashkenazim begin the recitation of Selichot..

Erev Rosh Hashana is Wednesday September 8, 2010
Erev Tavshilin
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Parsha Preview will reconvene for October 1, 2010 for Parsha Breisheit.

Parsha Summary – Nitzavim
The Torah Reading on Shabbat day is divided into 7 sections. Each section is called an Aliya (meaning to go up) since for each Aliya, one person "goes up" to make a bracha on the Torah Reading. We invite the Cohen first, followed by a Levite who then in turn is followed by an Israelite. When a Cohen is not in attendance we call an Israelite in their place, if a Levite is not in attendance then the same Cohen is called in their place.

Moshe presented the entire nation with the basis for our covenant with G-d. Opening with the promise to the forefathers and stretching across 500 years of history, our connection with G-d had been substantiated through miracle after miracle. Yet, future generations might deny their individual responsibility to continue the relationship and its attendant responsibilities. Therefore; Moshe made it unquestionably clear that each generation is obliged to educate their children and train them to accept the agreement with G-d. Subsequent generations should not be able to excuse their responsibilities for Torah and Mitzvot due to lack of knowledge.

The next issue Moshe confronted was the reconstruction of Torah. In every generation there are those who see Torah as archaic and outdated. "Only by grafting new ideas and practices to the stale practices of Torah will Judaism continue to exist and flourish." This excuse for changing Torah's eternal truths will result in the compromise of Torah observance, our land, and our people.

As history will tragically prove, Moshe's warnings would be ignored. Later generations would wonder about the destruction and desolation and, in their search for answers, return to the uncompromised truths and practices of their forefathers.

As a generation of Baalei Teshuva find their way back, many will be overwhelmed by the seemingly inaccessibility of Torah knowledge. Moshe reassures us that Torah is reachable to all those who truly desire it. Ignorance and a lack of opportunity for learning should never be a justification.

Finally, Moshe presented the end result. Awarded with free will we must choose properly. In the end, we are responsible for what happens.

Parsha Summary-Vayelech
Let us return to the 7th day of Adar, 2488, the last day of Moshe's life. Exactly 120 years earlier the world was enhanced with the birth of a child who brought revitalization to his people and the light of Torah to the world. He became a prophet of unparalleled greatness who led his nation through a miraculous 40 year journey to the edge of the promised land.

Trials, tribulations, rebellions, civil unrest, mutinies, conspiracies, disillusionment, war and questions were his lot in life. Yet, Moshe never gave up. He nurtured the Jews "like a mother cares for her child". He confronted man and G-d in defense of his charges, and succeeded in bringing the people, both physically and spiritually intact, to the fulfillment of a 500 year old promise. Now he had to put his affairs in order, finish his work, and insure an unquestioned transition of leadership to his desiple Yehoshua. This is the focus of Parsha Vayelech.

Moshe emphasized Hashem's continued presence and protection, even though, Moshe himself would not be with them any longer. Ever since assuming the leadership of Israel, Moshe had the conflicting job of fostering the nations dependency upon Hashem while de-emphasizing their dependency upon him as a leader and provider. Now, as he prepared his final good-bye, it was clear that by day's end, with Moshe's death, the nation would have no other choice but to reassess their dependency on Moshe and direct their attention to Hashem.

However this was far more complex than it seemed. True, Moshe's death would be a definitive "cutting of the umbilical cord”; but, living in the Land by the laws of nature rather than miracles would de-emphasize G-d's overt role in all aspects of their lives.

By writing the entire text of the Torah, entrusting it into the care of the Kohanim, and explaining the unique mitzvah of Hakhel, Moshe hoped that the people would retain the perspective of their dependency upon Hashem. The Kohanim represented the continued presence of "G-d in the midst of the camp". As teachers and role models, they kept an otherwise dispersed and decentralized nation focused on their national and individual missions.

Once every 7 years, the entire nation gathered in the Bait Hamikdash in a recreation of the giving of the Torah. This national expression of devotion would serve as an essential reminder that adherence to the Torah is the reason why the nation occupied and retained the Land.

Moshe and Yehoshua were summoned to the Ohel Moed and told the harsh future of their charges. In spite of all the warnings, the people would sin and lose sight of their dependency upon Hashem. They would be punished, and instead of accepting responsibility for the consequences that their neglect of G-d's commandments caused, they would have the Gaul to blame G-d's absence and neglect for the calamities and disasters that had befallen them.(31:17) It would then be the very words of this "Song" which would testify to the reality of their defection from Hashem and the inevitable consequences which occurred, as forewarned in this Torah.

Yehoshua was encouraged to be strong and courageous and lead the nation with the same devotion that Moshe had. The Torah, written by Moshe himself, was then placed in the Ark as proof of the conditions by which the Jewish people would live or die.

Parsha Netzavim-Vayelech
Not only with you do I make this covenant and this curse; but with the those who are not here today before Hashem, our G-d, as well as those here today. (Devarim 29:13-14)

On this verse, the Zohar has the following comment:

The Holy One, Blessed is He, literally showed Adam every generation and its scholars, according to the souls that would later come; all of them stood before The Holy One, Blessed is He as they would later appear in This World. Also, at Mt. Sinai “who are not here," it means that all those souls yet to be created were there at Mt. Sinai as they would eventually come to exist. But, why does it say "who are not here" if they were, in fact, there? It could be that they were "there," but not with them, meaning that they could not see them. But why could they not see them, as Adam did? Because they saw on a higher level than this, as it says, "face to face G-d spoke with you" (Devarim 5:4) ... (Zohar, Lech-Lecha 246)

This is a thought-provoking idea, with thought-provoking consequences. If you are Jewish today, and you can trace your Jewish roots quite far back in history, then, you too, at least in soul, were at Mt. Sinai. You may feel like you are here for the first time, but the above verse indicates otherwise, or, at least that only your present body is. Even converts to Judaism may possess a "Jewish soul" that can trace its spiritual roots back to Mt. Sinai!

This is the concept of "gilgulim," which people either love or hate. The word itself comes from the Hebrew word for "wheel," indicating the "rolling over" of the soul from lifetime to lifetime. As strange as it may sound--Torah Judaism believes in reincarnation, in a big way ... to the extent the that holy Arizal has an entire book dedicated to this topic called, "Sha'ar HaGilgulim"--Gate of Reincarnations.

It would inappropriate to go into much detail regarding the contents of this seminal work in this parshah sheet. But, be sufficient it to say that it changes one's entire perspective on life in this world, and the way we view ourselves in the context of Jewish and world history.

It seems that, for the most part, people see life as being random, with "winners" and "losers," and perhaps a lot of unexceptional people in-between. What has passed has passed, and what is about to come, who knows? "Life is for living and enjoying what you can while you can," many believe, and beyond that, what meaning is there?

From the Arizal, it is clear that life in every generation is another act in well-structured "play" that will include the Final Redemption. One person's strength is another person's weakness, and everyone has their tests, and this is not random. Every person is here for a certain reason, to achieve personal rectification, and that means confronting weakness, and not excusing it.

It also means that you can't take yourself, the people in your life, and your station in life for granted. Even though your life is the product of free-will choices, still, it is a function of concepts and realities we barely know anything about, but which affect us daily. Don't be fooled by what you can't see; there is a very elaborate, elegant spiritual reality around you, in you, and it makes living in this world far more dramatic when you consider its implications--personally, and nationally.

Halacha of the Week

Please note that the Halachot discussed here are according to Sephardic Tradition as outlined by The Maran Shulchan Aruch. This is just a summary and in no way deemed as a Halachic ruling. Please contact your local Orthodox Rabbi for help.

Since it is Chodesh Ellul I thought it would be appropriate to discuss The High Holidays.

The Reasons for the Mitzvah of Shofar

What is the reason behind the Mitzvah to hear the Shofar sound on Rosh Hashanah, and what intention must one have while fulfilling this obligation?

The Rambam (Rabbi Moshe Maimonides, Spain-Egypt, 1135-1204) discusses the reason behind the Shofar in Hilchot Teshuva. He begins by noting that the sounding of the Shofar on Rosh Hashanah is a “Gezerat Ha’katuv,” meaning, a decree issued by the Torah without any obvious reason. Before suggesting a possible reason for this Mitzvah, the Rambam emphasizes that we must ultimately approach this Mitzvah as a “Hok,” a law whose underlying rationale eludes human comprehension. Of course, there are possibilities that can be explored, but fundamentally, we observe the Mitzvah of Shofar simply because God commanded us to. And therefore, the most important intention one must have at the time of Shofar blowing is that he intends to fulfill the divine command to hear the sound of the Shofar on Rosh Hashanah.

After this introduction, the Rambam suggests that the Shofar blowing also contains a “Remez” – an allusion – to the message of “awakening”. The Shofar symbolizes an “alarm clock,” as it “awakens” us from our spiritual slumber. It calls to those of us who have fallen into the routine of pursuing material and physical indulgence, beckoning us to change our course and remember the purpose of life. This “awakening” and the need to change direction is also something we should bear in mind at the time when the Shofar is sounded.

The Gemara mentions yet another benefit of the Shofar, namely, that it reminds God, as it were, of Akedat Yitzchak-The Binding of Yitzchak. After the angel appeared to Abraham and told him not to slaughter his son, Abraham saw a ram caught by its horns in shrubbery. The Shofar we sound on Rosh Hashanah is reminiscent of that ram and thus brings to mind the great merit of the Akeda, from which we continue to benefit to this very day and which we seek to invoke as we stand in judgment on Rosh Hashanah.

Furthermore, the Gemara elsewhere notes that the extra set of Shofar blasts that we sound has the ability to confound the Satan, rattling him to the point where he is unable to prosecute and advocate against us before the Heavenly Tribunal.

These are all worthy thoughts to think in one’s mind during the sounding of the Shofar, but, as mentioned, the primary intention must be that we seek to fulfill the Biblical command of Shofar. A verse in Tehillim (81:4) says about the Mitzvah of Shofar,

“Ki Hok Le’Yisrael Hu Mishpat L’Elokeh Ya’akov” (“For it is a statute for Israel; a law for the God of Yaakov”).

The Mitzvah of Shofar is a “Hok,” a Mitzvah without any obvious reason, and this is how we should observe it, even if it is also a “Mishpat L’Elokeh Ya’akov” – meaning, there have been reasons given for it, like a “Mishpat” (a Mitzvah whose reason is clear and known).

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Tuesday, August 24, 2010

Yitzi’s Parsha Preview-Ki Tavo




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Parshah Ki Tavo- Deuteronomy 26:1-29:8
Torah Reading for Week of August 22-28, 2010 - Elul 12-18 5770

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Number Of Mitzvot in Parshah Ki Tavo: 6
3 Mitzvot Aseh (Positive Commandments)
3 Mitzvot Lo Taaseh (Negative Commandments-Prohibitions)

Haftorah: (Additional portion, from Prophets, which is read after the Parsha)
Yeshayahu / Isaiah 60:1- 22
This is the sixth of seven Haftorot, - of the Seven Haftorot of Consolation, that precede Rosh HaShana).

Parsha Summary – Ki Tavo

The Torah Reading on Shabbat day is divided into 7 sections. Each section is called an Aliya (meaning to go up) since for each Aliya, one person "goes up" to make a bracha on the Torah Reading. We invite the Cohen first, followed by a Levite who then in turn is followed by an Israelite. When a Cohen is not in attendance we call an Israelite in their place, if a Levite is not in attendance then the same Cohen is called in their place.

During the 40 years of the desert, the Jews were being prepared to accept the reality of Hashem's dominance and the obligation of keeping His mitzvot. Now, in Parshas Ki Tavo, as they were ready to cross the Jordan and find their intended place as "... highest of all the nations on earth." (28:1) Moshe commanded a number of declarations and ceremonies. These ceremonies would accentuate the cause and effect relationship that exists between adherence to Torah, the laws of nature, and the divine responsiveness of the land.

The Parsha begins with the Mitzvot of the first fruits and the completion of the Tithing cycles. Both are accompanied by special declarations of Hashem's mastery over the land, and man's responsibility to keep the commandments of Hashem.

Moshe presents a statement of allegiance between Hashem and His People. We are to keep the Torah and Hashem guarantees us praise, fame and glory as the "highest of all the nations". (26:19) Upon crossing the Jordan, Bnei Yisrael will publicly declare its acceptance of Hashem's covenant by: inscribing the Torah upon twelve stones; erecting them as a monument; and the ceremony of blessings and curses that is to take place between the opposing mountains, Har (mountain) Grizim and Har (mountain) Ayval.

Commonly known as the Tochacha the admonitions and punishments. It describes the consequences that will befall the Jewish people if they ignore Hashem's Torah and his providence. The custom is for the Reader to read this Aliya more quickly and quietly than the rest of the Parsha.

The Parsha concludes with the beginning of Moshe's final address. He starts by recounting the miraculous nature of the past 40 years and its clear indication of Hashem's ever present protection, past and future.

Ki Tavo

“Because you did not serve Hashem, your G-d, with happiness and goodness of heart, when you had everything in abundance” (28:47)

The Torah attributes all of the shocking curses which will befall Bnei Yisrael to not serving Hashem with happiness. The complaint is not that we will not serve Hashem, rather, although we will serve Him, the stress is upon the fact that it will not be done with happiness. Citing the Zohar, the Ramban (Rabbi Moses Ben Nachman Girondi, 1194 Gerona and Israel, 1194-1270) teaches that the admonition in this week’s parsha refers to the period of the second Beit Hamikdash through its destruction and the subsequent exile.

The Talmud Yoma 9B states that the second Beit Hamikdash was destroyed because of “sinat chinam” - “baseless hatred”. This would appear to contradict the reason offered by the Torah, that the destruction was precipitated by Bnei Yisrael’s not serving Hashem with happiness. How do we reconcile this contradiction?

The Torah attests to the fact that we were unhappy, even though we had everything. This is mirrored by the contemporary phenomena which finds a high percentage of depressed and disenchanted people to be those who enjoy success and high social standing. Why do people who apparently have everything that life has to offer, still exhibit a lack of happiness?

A person can only be truly happy if he appreciates what Hashem has given him. However, if a person is egocentric, considering himself deserved of all that he has, he will not be content by that which is already his; rather, he will be focused on those things which are not yet his, but to which he feels entitled. If a person goes through life with the attitude that everyone owes him, he will constantly be miserable, never satisfied with what he has. Furthermore, since he feels he is entitled to everything that he desires a person who has something he desires becomes an immediate threat to him. He begins loathing that person for no reason other than the perception he maintains that that person is withholding from him an object which should rightfully be his. It is this type of loathing that the Talmud defines as baseless hatred.

Consequently, baseless hatred can be traced back at its inception to our lack of appreciation for what Hashem has done and continues to do for us. Therefore, sinat chinam is not a different reason than the reason offered by the Torah as to what precipitated the destruction of the Temple; it is a manifestation of being unhappy when serving Hashem.


Halacha of the Week-New

Please note that the Halachot discussed here are according to Sephardic Tradition as outlined by The Maran Shulchan Aruch. This is just a summary and in no way deemed as a Halachic ruling. Please contact your local Orthodox Rabbi for help.

Since it is Chodesh Ellul I thought it would be appropriate to discuss The High Holidays.

The Beracha of Shehehiyanu on the Second Night of Rosh Hashanah

There is considerable discussion among the Halachic authorities regarding the recitation of the Bracha of Shehehiyanu on the second night of Rosh Hashanah. It is clear according to all views that one must recite the Bracha in Kiddush on the first night of Rosh Hashanah, before drinking the wine, just as we do on the first night of every other Yom Tov. On the second night of Rosh Hashanah, however, some Rishonim (Medieval Halachic scholars) maintained that one should not recite Shehehiyanu. In their view, the two days of Rosh Hashanah differ from other Yamim Tovim in that they constitute a “Yama Arichta” – a prolonged day of Yom Tov. The two days of Rosh Hashanah, according to this position, are not to be viewed as two separate festive occasions, each of which requiring its own recitation of Shehehiyanu, but rather as a single occasion. As such, the Bracha of Shehehiyanu, which celebrates the onset of the festival, is recited only on the first night, and not on the second night.

Other Rishonim, however, including Rashi (Rabbi Shlomo Yitzchaki of Troyes, France, 1040-1105) and the Rashba (Rabbi Shlomo Ben Aderet of Barcelona, Spain, 1235-1310), disagreed. They held that Rosh Hashanah is no different from other festivals in this regard, and the two days of the holiday constitute independent festive occasions, both of which require the recitation of Shehehiyanu. This also appears to be the view of the Rambam (Rabbi Moshe Maimonides, Spain-Egypt, 1135-1204).

The Rosh (Rabbenu Asher Ben Yehiel, Germany-Spain, 1250-1327) suggested a compromise position, advising that one should place a new fruit – meaning, a fruit he had not eaten since the beginning of the fruit’s season – on the table during Kiddush on the second night of Rosh Hashanah. He should have in mind while reciting Kiddush that if Halacha follows the view that Shehehiyanu is not required on the second night of Rosh Hashanah, then the Shehehiyanu which he recites should refer to the new fruit, which he then eats with his meal. This way, one may recite Shehehiyanu without running the risk of reciting a Bracha Le’vatala (meaningless Bracha) according to all opinions.

As for the final Halacha, the Shulhan Aruch rules in accordance with the view of Rashi and the Rashba, that one must recite Shehehiyanu on both nights of Rosh Hashanah. He adds, however, that it is preferable to place a new fruit on the table during Kiddush, as the Rosh recommended, in order to satisfy all opinions, though according to the strict Halacha this is not necessary.

Indeed, the widespread practice is to place a new fruit on the table during Kiddush on the second night of Rosh Hashanah, and then to eat the fruit as part of the meal. Although Rav Haim Vital (Safed, Israel, 1543-1620) wrote in his Sha’ar Ha’kavanot that a new fruit is unnecessary, as Halacha accepts the view requiring the recitation of Shehehiyanu, this is nevertheless the widespread custom, in accordance with the Shulhan Aruch’s ruling. It should be emphasized, however, that one who does not have a new fruit on the second night of Rosh Hashanah should certainly recite Shehehiyanu nonetheless. This is the ruling of the Ben Ish Hai (Rav Yosef Haim of Baghdad, 1833-1909).

Many later scholars addressed the interesting question of how placing a new fruit on the table resolves the dilemma and enables a person to satisfy all views. Let us assume, for argument’s sake, that it is acceptable to recite Shehehiyanu upon seeing the new fruit, and then eat the fruit later, as part of the meal. Still, reciting this Bracha after reciting Kiddush and before drinking would appear to constitute a Hefsek (improper disruption) in between Kiddush and drinking. As discussed, we place the fruit on the table so that the Shehehiyanu recited as part of Kiddush will refer to the fruit according to the view that Shehehiyanu is not otherwise warranted on the second night of Rosh Hashanah. But if so, then this Bracha is entirely irrelevant to Kiddush, and thus constitutes a Hefsek in between Kiddush and drinking, which should, seemingly, disqualify the Kiddush. It would thus seem to emerge that while endeavoring to resolve one problem, we bring ourselves into another, far more serious, predicament!

Rav Haim Palachi (Izmir, Turkey, 1788-1869) suggested that the Bracha of Shehehiyanu would not constitute a Hefsek because, as we saw, Halacha follows the view that one in any event should recite Shehehiyanu on the second night of Rosh Hashanah. This explanation, however, seems insufficient to answer the question, as it essentially concedes that placing a new fruit on the table will not achieve anything according to the view that Shehehiyanu is not recited on the second night of Rosh Hashanah. If so, then why do we place the fruit at all?

Another answer is suggested by Rabbi Moshe Halevi (Israel, 1961-2001), in his work Birkat Hashem, where he explains that the Bracha of Shehehiyanu is not inconsistent with the spirit of Kiddush. This Beracha simply expresses gratitude to God for bringing us to this special occasion; it does not contain any specific reference that would be in contrast with the theme of Kiddush. For example, if in the middle of a Kiddush a person recited the Bracha of She’hakol, this would certainly constitute a Hefsek as this Beracha is entirely out of place in Kiddush. This is not the case with regard to Shehehiyanu, and therefore this Bracha would not constitute a disruption.

In any event, one should preferably follow the widespread custom to place a new fruit on the table during Kiddush on the second night of Rosh Hashanah, if possible. One should then eat the fruit during the meal, without reciting an additional Beracha of Shehehiyanu, as it was covered by the Shehehiyanu recited at Kiddush.

An interesting side note-Many have the custom of using a pomegranate to act as a new fruit. As a young student in Yeshiva I recall one of the older students asking why do we use a pomegranate specifically and not another fruit? Our Rebbi answered that the pomegranate has 613 seeds representing the 613 mitzvot of the Torah. The older student trusted the word of our Rebbi but wanted to settle the question in his mind He purchased three pomegranates and set about his task of counting each seed. He counted each pomegranate and satisfied his curiosity. Each pomegranate contained 613 seeds.

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